1. What was the happiest time of your life? Did you have much or little, or somewhere in between?

2. What lessons have you learned from not having much?

3. What lessons have you learned from having more than you need?

4. When in your life have you really had to learn flexibility?

5. Have you ever had an “Aha!” moment in your life where a fresh insight really hit you?

1. Which of the qualities Paul tells us to meditate on in Philippians 4:8 is most important for you to remember?

2. Which of these qualities comes hardest for you?

3. What do you think of when you think of meditation?

4. Who did you follow growing up?

1. What kinds of things are high on your list of anxiety?

2. What relationships do you have that bring you joy and peace?

3. What relationships do you have, or used to have, that bring anxiety into your life? What could you do, or what could you have done, to bring a more healthy connection to that relationship?

4. Do you generally pray just to get God to do stuff or are you consciously looking for a personal connection with Him?

5. Is joy rare for you, or generally normal?

1. What are some of the things you’ve seen that have divided friends?

2. What are some of the things you’ve seen that have divided churches?

3. Who is the person in your life you appreciate, even though they are totally different than you?

4. What kinds of Christians do you have the hardest time feeling connected to them?

5. What’s something weird about you?